Unless you're an experienced rimmer who's too busy with your head stuck up someone's asshole already, this is a tutorial on how to eat the booty properly. Most of us have dabbled in the booty, but the minute someone talks about eating it, faces look sus and folks start to question. Those people don't know what a good tongue on the hole can do (or how good it feels to have their own backside feasted upon.) If you think you don't like giving it or receiving it, it's because you're doing it wrong, and here's why.

Before you go in for the gusto, tease the butt. You’re working your way around your partner's body everywhere else, reach around and let them know you’re interested. And don’t be surprised if they do the same to you. This lets each of you delicately test the waters and see how your partner responds. You might feel a tightening of their body, and you might want to tighten up the first time they try it on you.  But, loosen up.  Let it go. Once you feel how good a light rubbing of the sensitive butt can be, you’ll be more likely to let them take it further, and they’ll likely let you work your way all around their body too.

This is not an area to bite. You sure don’t want to be bitten, so leave your teeth in your mouth when you’re trying to entertain your lover. The delicacy of the butt is what makes this enjoyable. There are a lot of nerves back there. Go slow, go easy, and remember: No Teeth.

You know how to grab a hold of an ass and squeeze it tightly. Part of the enjoyment is the overall experience. You need to make room to get your tongue where you need it to go and in doing so, let your partner feel your strength through your hands. When they're looking to pleasure you, think about it in the reverse. They might not be as strong as you, so, again loosen up. Give it a chance. And, if you’re really down with it, help out by holding your legs back a little. Be prepared to not want them to stop once they start. 

There are a lot of folks who want to skip the appetizer and go for the main course way too quickly. It's easy to just want to get your fill when you're that hungry. But, before you go trying to get that good feeling by selfishly satiating your own desire, share the love a little and prep. You’ve likely learned your lesson on the front side by this point—if you prepare "it" a little before, it’s more enjoyable for everyone. That goes for the back-end, too. The same skills that have been mastered with your tongue on the front are likely to benefit both sides. Savor your dinner, don't just order dessert.

Don't suffocate in the booty. You'll be working hard down there, trying to breathe through your nose as your lips and tongue do the work. Take a minute to catch your breath and make it about your partner. When you do so, it doesn't seem like you're overworked or giving up. Ask them how it feels, if they're enjoying it, and what else you can do to please them. And then, take a deep breath like you're about to jump in an Olympic-size pool and try to swim the whole length under water and go back down for more.

This is something that should already be happening. We’ve got to the point now where hopefully everyone has realized eating butt isn't that out of the ordinary. And hopefully you’ve also come to understand how good it can feel. You have some pointers, which you can show your partner, rather than tell them. And when it comes to the back-end and a little extra enjoyment, it's another great time for hands on the balls. Like usual, a little extra help in that area adds a lot of extra sensitivity that leads to that full-body good feeling.