1. He Flakes On You All The Time
When a guy is serious about you, it means you’re important to him. He’s going to follow through with what he said he was going to do.
Why? Well, when a guy is serious about you, he’s obviously hoping that you feel the same way about him.
He knows that if he treats you like unimportant or flakes on you a lot, you are going to give up on him and move on. So he makes it his priority to follow through with her.
If he’s flaking on you all the time or cancelling at the last minute, it means he’s not overly concerned about your feelings… which is a big sign he’s not that serious about you.
2. He Doesn’t Let Himself Be Open Around You
Being really open around someone else requires trust. It means that you trust them not to reject you when you’re at your most vulnerable.
In any good relationship, both partners are comfortable being open around each other – because they trust each other. But being open with someone new can be scary.
If he’s never open around you – if he’s always wearing a “mask” or never really lets himself be vulnerable, it means that he’s either too nervous to be open around you, or he doesn’t think it’s worth it.
Obviously, if you’re at the very beginning of your relationship this isn’t as big a deal, but if you’ve been together long enough that you should start opening up by now and he hasn’t, it’s a sign that he’s not all that serious.
3. He Doesn’t Want You To Meet His Friends Or Family
When two people are in a close relationship, they’re not just dating each other. They’re also sharing their lives together.
And that means sharing the people that are close to you.
It’s a classic step in any relationship to meet your significant other’s friends, and eventually, family. Those are the people who he thinks most highly of, and they’re the people whose opinions he most respects.
If he’s serious about you, he’s going to want you to meet his friends and family, not only to show them who he’s dating, but also so that you can see that side of him and grow closer as a couple.
If he keeps you away from his friends and family… it’s a sign that he doesn’t really want the relationship to progress any further.
4. You Don’t Feel Comfortable Around Each Other
Good relationships are all about intimacy. And intimacy can only grow when two people trust each other enough to be truly vulnerable around each other.
If it doesn’t feel comfortable to be with him, or he doesn’t seem comfortable when he’s with you, that’s a huge obstacle to a deepening relationship and to intimacy forming between you.
Great, lasting relationships only happen when you can truly be yourself around someone else and they can be themselves around you, without any fear of rejection.
If it’s not comfortable being together, it’s a sign that you might not be compatible with each other – which is a big sign that things aren’t going to get serious.